- Deuteronomy 31:6 NIV
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”
- Joshua 1:9 NIV
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” - 1 Chronicles 28:20 NIV
David also said to Solomon his son, “Be strong and courageous, and do the work. Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord God, my God, is with you. He will not fail you or forsake you until all the work for the service of the temple of the Lord is finished. - 2 Chronicles 32:7 NASB
“Be strong and courageous, do not fear or be dismayed because of the king of Assyria nor because of all the horde that is with him; for the one with us is greater than the one with him. - Psalm 16:8 NASB
I have set the Lord continually before me;
Because He is at my right hand, I will not be shaken. - Psalm 27:1 NIV
The Lord is my light and my salvation—
whom shall I fear?
The Lord is the stronghold of my life—
of whom shall I be afraid? - Psalm 27:14 NASB
Wait for the Lord;
Be strong and let your heart take courage;
Yes, wait for the Lord. - Psalm 31:24 NASB
Be strong and let your heart take courage,
All you who hope in the Lord. - Psalm 56:3-4 NIV
When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.
In God, whose word I praise—
in God I trust and am not afraid.
What can mere mortals do to me? - Isaiah 41:10 NIV
So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. - Isaiah 41:13 NIV
For I am the Lord your God
who takes hold of your right hand
and says to you, Do not fear;
I will help you. - 1 Corinthians 16:13 NIV
Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. - 2 Timothy 1:7 NIV
For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline. - Hebrews 13:5-6 NIV
Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said,
“Never will I leave you;
never will I forsake you.”
6 So we say with confidence,
“The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid
What can mere mortals do to me?” - 1 Peter 3:13-14
Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. “Do not fear their threats; do not be frightened.”
Chatting about Gentleness and a Book Giveaway!!
Thank goodness for my Kindle because my book shelves are sagging in the middle despite me repeatedly cleaning out the books I can ‘do without’ and still survive.
I’m a bookworm from way back, so it’s perfect that one of the ‘perks’ of being a writer is getting to read and review books from other authors.
When I saw the title of Mary Ann Froehlich’s new book, Courageous Gentleness, I knew I wanted to read it, review it, and give a copy away to someone else. You can read my book review here.
I’ve felt my own spiritual toes stepped on before when reading this verse, “Let your gentleness be evident to all” (Philippians 4:5). Because we too often treat gentleness like a personality trait. You have it, or you don’t, either way is fine.
But it says it right there—our gentleness should be visible to everyone around us. It’s Christ in us, the Holy Spirit doing the work of producing spiritual fruit.
So, today, I have a little extra treat for you. Mary Ann was kind enough to let me ask her some questions and share her answers with you!
And wait, there’s more!
Just for being such a wonderful bunch of blog readers, today at the end of my interview with Mary Ann, I’ll give away a copy of her book. Stay tuned to find out how to qualify for this special offer…
Okay, my friends, over to Mary Ann:
- What’s your favorite holiday and why?
I love Thanksgiving because all my adult children come home for this celebration and it kicks off the holiday season.
- You are a musician, so I’m wondering if you could pick one instrument to learn that you’ve never learned to play, what would it be?
I enjoy listening to cello music so that is the instrument I would pick.
- Lots of times when we think of ‘gentleness,’ we think of ‘weak,’ ‘wimpy,’ ‘a doormat,’ or a ‘pushover.’ How is the biblical definition of gentleness different from that?
The biblical definition is quite the opposite. Gentleness embodies restrained strength. Unleashing harsh words or actions is weakness and evidences a lack of self-control. Our best example of restrained strength is Christ’s response to attackers during the days leading to his death.
- You have a successful career as a music teacher and you talk in your book a lot about practice. What are your best tips on how to practice anything from a musical instrument to a spiritual trait like gentleness?
My best tip for practicing is to isolate the most difficult sections of a piece you are learning. Practice those first and multiple times until you are comfortable. Then you can play the piece from the beginning and avoid struggling through the tough sections. This same approach works for any skill we are learning that requires practice, which includes biblical behaviors such as gentleness and other fruit of the spirit. We will benefit if we first focus on improving the areas we struggle with most in life instead of avoiding them.
- You share in your book about Christianity having an “image problem” in the United States and you ask the question, “Are Christians Known for Being Gentle?” What do you think the answer to that question is ? How can we change that?
In my personal experience (and the research backs it up), Christians are not known for being gentle. The world knows Christians more for what they stand against instead of who they are for. As a body, we have an angry, intolerant reputation. What saddens me more is when Christians tell me that their fellow Christians do not treat them with gentleness. Through the years, I have had several friends who needed to remove themselves from the church when they were going through a tough season of life (a divorce, child on drugs, teen pregnancy, etc.). The church should be our safest place when we are in pain but too often fellow believers rub salt in our wounds.
- What’s your encouragement for someone who says, “I’m just not a gentle person. I’m outspoken. That’s just who I am.”
I would say that the fruit of the spirit is not a personality trait. Every believer is called to mirror Christ. Practicing those biblical behaviors is hard work for all of us.
Thanks so much to Mary Ann Froehlich for sharing with us!
I’ll be giving away a copy of her book Courageous Gentleness using a random number generator. All you need to do to enter is comment on this post (not on Facebook, here on the blog please) with the answer to this question:
Do you think Christians are known for being gentle? If not, what can we do about our ‘image problem?’
I’ll close the giveaway on Thursday, July 17th at 11:59 p.m. and announce the winner in the blog for Friday, July 18th.
Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. Her book, Ask Me Anything, Lord: Opening Our Hearts to God’s Questions, is available now! To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.
Copyright © 2014 Heather King
Courageous Gentleness, Book Review
I loved the slightly unexpected nature of the title for Mary Ann Froehlich’s new book, Courageous Gentleness. In a modern world like ours, where we marvel at the brazen, the bold, the loud and powerful, her book encourages us to prize, treasure, and pursue the spiritual fruit of gentleness.
The book is filled with Scripture and each chapter concludes with a few questions of “Personal Retreat” to guide the reader into deeper reflection and personal application. At under 200 pages, the book is short, easy to read, but thought-provoking.
She begins with a chapter that asks, “Is Gentleness for Wimps?” Then she follows with chapters on the gentleness of God, of Jesus, and of Christians, as well as chapters on practicing aspects of gentleness such as humility, self-control, communication, patience, and more. Biblical gentleness, she argues, isn’t being weak or wimpy. It’s more like a powerhouse of meekness.
So often we excuse our lack of gentleness by saying, “Well, that’s just not me. I’m outspoken. That’s who I am.” But the Bible is clear when it says, “Let your gentleness be evident to all.” We are all to practice gentleness. It’s a marker of our faith and a sign of the Holy Spirit at work within us. It’s supposed to be part of our Christian testimony, drawing others to know Jesus.
I love that Mary Ann Froehlich emphasize that gentleness is a trait we practice by disciplining our tongues and taking time to craft responses to others. It may not be our natural bent, but it’s part of our Christian calling. As she writes, ‘gentleness is not simply a quality, trait, behavior, or characteristic. It is a choice.”
I received this book free from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review and the opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
5 Things This Introvert is Teaching My Extroverted Daughter (and 5 things maybe she’s teaching me)
My daughter is an extrovert-to-the-power-of-1o. At 18 months old, I realized she could not have a day at home and be happy.
Could. Not.
If I did not put that child in the car seat and drive her somewhere every single day she would end up a screaming mess of frustrated babyhood and I would have a mom meltdown.
Now, I’m pretty sure she goes through withdrawals the first week of summer vacation because she must see friends every day and if she’s not seeing them in person, could she please call one of them on the phone?
I, on the other hand, like home-time, family-time, quiet-time, me-time, creative-time, thinking-time, and I hate the telephone. I pretty much disintegrate emotionally if I’m out of my house too long more than two days in a row.
But God made me her mom, so we’re in this together and maybe we’re both better because of it.
5 things This Introvert is Teaching My Extroverted Daughter:
1. Be comfortable with who you are when no one is around: If you’re uncomfortable with yourself when you’re on your own and it’s quiet, then something’s wrong. You need to know who you are and like who you are even in the silence.
2. Family comes first: Sure, it’s exciting to go to your friend’s house, swim in their pool, tag along when they go to day trips and play with their toys and eat their food. But family always comes first. It’s too easy to be nicer to those outside your home than it is to be kind to those you live with every single day all up close and personal. Don’t take family for granted and don’t treat them worse than you treat your friends or even strangers.
3. Sometimes it’s better to think about what you’re going to say before you say it: Pause. Think. Then Speak.
4. Quiet is not the enemy and boredom is just fuel for creativity: If you’ve squeezed out all opportunities for quiet, rest, and unscheduled time, then you’ve squeezed out time with God and time for God to speak to you.
5. It’s okay to say “no”: You don’t have to answer the phone every time it rings. You don’t have to do everything you’re asked to do or go everywhere you’re asked to go. Sometimes saying “no” is the healthiest and wisest thing you can say.
5 Things My Extroverted Daughter is Teaching Me:
1. People matter more than to-do lists and tasks. It’s okay to leave the to-do list tomorrow and spend time watching a movie or sitting with someone, playing a game, or just talking.
2. Ministry always means loving people. It’s not possible to be a vessel fit for God’s service if I fail to love people. Being an introvert is not an excuse for being self-focused or for acting like the world is all about ‘me’. Ministry requires compassion, unselfishness, kindness, generosity with time and resources, and absolutely requires loving others—whether you’re an introvert or not.
3. Most things really are better with a friend. Sharing experiences with others opens you up to new perspectives and ideas.
4. If you’re always worried about what people think, you miss out on a lot of fun. Sometimes you just have to risk it and put yourself out there, even when it’s uncomfortable or unexpected or unknown. Be silly. Have fun. Do something new even if you won’t be great at it. Learn to laugh at yourself.
5. A room full of new people is just a room full of potential new friends. So don’t be afraid; just enjoy the adventure!
Children are a gift from the Lord;
they are a reward from him (Psalm 127:3 NLT)
Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. Her book, Ask Me Anything, Lord: Opening Our Hearts to God’s Questions, is available now! To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.
Copyright © 2014 Heather King
Declaration of Dependence
I picked my older girls up from the weekend camp and breathed a mom sigh of relief at the sight of them.
They survived without me.
They had on slightly crazy outfits despite my careful planning as we packed their bags days before. “Mom, I ran out of shorts and play-clothes,” they tell me.
Their cheeks were a little red from too little sunscreen, but not truly burnt. (Hadn’t I fretted all weekend about sunscreen application?)
They tried Mountain Dew for the first time.
I opened up those suitcases at home and shook my head at the wet swimsuit and towel folded in there with the rest of their clothes.
But, really, all things considered it’d been two-and-a-half days without mom and they had made a million little decisions and done just fine.
Sometimes you gotta let them grow up. Maybe it’s harder for us moms than it is for them.
I hear it all the time.
“I can do it myself, Mom.”
Little bursts of independence from these ‘babes’ and that includes the nine-month-old, who wants to feed himself and make his very own decisions about where to go, when to go, and what to put in his mouth.
This is my job as a mom, to love them into independence, teach them how to do and what to do on their own.
But that’s not God’s desire for me as my Father, not His parental mission or responsibility. He’s doing the opposite, wooing my independent heart into trust and showing me the lesson of the vine:
Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing (John 15:4-5 NIV).
This abiding life, the never separating from God, never stepping out on my own and depending on my own strengths or abilities sounds so simple.
It’s not.
It takes effort to remain in Him.
Dependence after all can feel so uncomfortable, so helpless, so out of control, so uncertain.
But Jesus didn’t say, “Apart from me you can do small things, but not the big stuff.” Nor did He say, “Apart from me you can be okay, but with me you can be extraordinary.”
He said that without Him, we can’t do a thing. Anything. Not the big stuff. Not the small things.
In the same way, Lisa Harper says, “We can become more dependent on God by trusting Him with the full weight of our lives” (Stumbling Into Grace 165).
When I consider the “full weight” of my life, I realize just how often I stroll along carrying most things on my own. It’s only the big cumbersome packages of circumstances that I hand over to God.
Sometimes we have no choice but dependence. We’ve exhausted ourselves in independent efforts and faced the fullness of our weakness.
Most of us have been there. The stress of overwhelming circumstances breaks us down and we know that what we face is simply too much, too impossible and too weighty to handle on our own. We’d be crushed.
So, we turn to God. That’s all that’s left to do. As Paul said, “I can do all this through him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13). We declare dependence, we trust in His strength alone to help us through, and for a short season we have no choice but to rest in Him.
Yet, we have a way of confining God’s direction to “important” life matters. When it comes to where to live, our job, our relationships, our marriages, our health, and other huge life decisions, we pray frantically for God’s will and for direction and wisdom.
But when it’s a matter of those everyday life details like our schedule, our eating and spending habits, our conversations, and our tasks at work or home, we tend to think we can handle that “all by myself.”
Apart from Him, all by myself, I make things more difficult, I make a big mess, I miss out on blessing, I reject obedience, and I can do nothing.
This is the lesson of dependence, the learning to listen, learning to respond to that gentle nudging of the Spirit all day, every day.
This is the Spirit-led life: Yielding, loosening the grip, and giving over control.
Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. Her book, Ask Me Anything, Lord: Opening Our Hearts to God’s Questions, is available now! To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.
Copyright © 2014 Heather King
It Would Be Easier if We Didn’t Have to Love Our Enemy
My daughter was about 3-1/2 years old when she made this enemy.
After a week of summer dance camp, she declared that she absolutely did not want to take ballet in the fall.
Did she enjoy dance?
Yes.
Did she have fun at the camp?
Absolutely.
Did she want to try the dance classes?
No.
End of story. No explanation. I plied her with Mom-questions. She stuck to her decision without explanation.
In October, we sat together on one of the benches in the dance studio waiting room watching the tiny dancers file out after class. We picked up my oldest daughter and headed out the door.
That’s when my girl said it: “I didn’t see Madelyn in the class.”
Madelyn? Who are you talking about?
Then she exploded with the report that Madelyn always wanted to sit on the triangle at dance camp even when other kids wanted to sit on the triangle and she wouldn’t let anyone else sit there no matter what.
She sucked in one big breath, harumphed, and tossed her arms criss-cross around her chest while stomping her feet for effect..
Well, babe, Madelyn was in dance camp, but she isn’t in the regular dance class.
“Oh.” Long pause while 3-1/2 year old process new information.
“Well, I want to take ballet then.”
All this time, territorial conflict with another preschool child had dominated her life choices.
Territorialism, jealousy, just plain old being annoyed with another person….it doesn’t get much easier handling all that mess as a grown-up.
We’ve all been there, forced into relationships with folks that drive us insane maybe with their negativity or pettiness or meanness, maybe insecurity, pride, constant bragging, insistence on arguing with everything you say, trying to compete with everything you do.
But I tell my girls this:
You don’t have to be best friends with mean kids, but you have to be kind and loving to everyone.
1 John 4:20 says it this way:
“If anyone says, ‘I love God’ yet hates his brother, is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother whom He has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.”
I quote it at my kids, but taking it to heart? Practicing what I preach? That’s a little harder.
Sometimes I want to edit the command, soften it a little, make it fit a little more comfortably instead of stepping on my toes.
Maybe: “For anyone who does not love his brother….when his brother is a pretty nice person….cannot love God, but when his brother is annoying, a jerk, mean, or immature, then it’s fine not to love that guy.”
Of course, that’s not Jesus.
God is love, and Jesus showed that best by loving the unlovely, by loving the enemy.
So, I could pit myself against the ‘unlovable’ or I could choose Jesus and the discipline of kindness and sacrificial love.
It starts with prayer, but the temptation is there, too, to pray that God change them when what I need to pray is that God shows me His love for them.
Because maybe, just maybe, the person who needs changing is me.
Paul wrote this to the Thessalonian church:
constantly bearing in mind your work of faith and labor of love and steadfastness of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ in the presence of our God and Father (1 Thessalonians 1:3 NASB).
Love itself is part of the labor.
As Beth Moore says,
Sometimes loving comes easy. Other times it nearly kills us (Children of the Day).
This is at work and it’s at church. It’s with the annoying mom in the PTA and the gal who drives us crazy on the sidelines at soccer.
It’s in our own homes, too.
Sometimes love is hard. It’s labor and toil and discipline to believe the best, to serve and feel like you’ve given all and then given some more. It’s looking past imperfections and choosing to focus on the good and lovely and of good report (Philippians 4:8).
Love means choosing to give grace and forgive. It means not keeping score and a list of wrongs.
Love
….is
….patient (1 Corinthians 13).
I think of a favorite promise:
And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns (Philippians 1:6 NLT).
God’s not finished with me yet and He won’t give up on me. I cling to that.
Yet, here’s the challenge, too: He hasn’t finished with others either. He hasn’t given up on them.
So, maybe I need to give them the space and the grace to let God continue that work because, after all, He’s given that space and grace to me.
In June, I took time for friendship and learned that God uses others to bring me into His presence, sometimes in unexpected ways and sometimes through unexpected people.
To read more about this 12-month journey of pursuing the presence of Christ, you can follow the links below! Won’t you join me this month as I ‘Invest in Friendship’?
- Finding Room to Breathe: A 12-month pursuit of the presence of Christ
- January: Be Still and Know
- February: Pray Simply
- March: Unplug
- April: Enjoy Beauty
- May: Create Beauty
- June: Invest in Friendship
Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. Her book, Ask Me Anything, Lord: Opening Our Hearts to God’s Questions, is available now! To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.
Copyright © 2014 Heather King
14 Bible Verses on Loving Others
- Matthew 5:43-44 NIV
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you…”
- Mark 12:29-31 NLT
Jesus replied, “The most important commandment is this: ‘Listen, O Israel! The Lord our God is the one and only Lord. And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.’ The second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ - John 13:34 NIV
A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. - John 15:12-13 NLT
This is my commandment: Love each other in the same way I have loved you. There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. - Romans 13:8 NLT
Owe nothing to anyone—except for your obligation to love one another. If you love your neighbor, you will fulfill the requirements of God’s law. - 1 Corinthians 13:1 NIV
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. - 1 Corinthians 13:13 NIV
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. - Ephesians 4:2 NLT
Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. - Ephesians 4:31-32
“Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” - 1 John 3:18
Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth. - 1 Peter 1:22 NLT
You were cleansed from your sins when you obeyed the truth, so now you must show sincere love to each other as brothers and sisters. Love each other deeply with all your heart. - 1 John 4:7-8 NIV
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. - 1 John 4:11 NIV
Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. - 1 John 4:19-21 NIV
We love because he first loved us. Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.
The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages, Book Review
The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages
by Shaunti Feldhahn
In her new book, The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages, Shaunti Feldhahn shares what she’s discovered from her latest research on what helps marriages thrive. She found that lots of couples focus on what they consider the “big things” like ‘communication,’ but that can’t really identify wha
t that means or what it looks like. Yet, really there are a few small habits, actions, and behaviors that the most happily married couples had in common.
Some of these little secrets might be no secret to you, like spending time together. Others might be more surprising, like the fact that highly happy married couples sometimes leave a conflict for another day rather than trying to hash it before bed no matter how physically tired and emotionally depleted they are.
She also emphasizes at the end of the book that no one should tackle all these tips at once. It’s too easy to get overwhelmed, forget, or just give up. Instead, choose one or two focal points and work on those. Even if one partner chooses to change, she argues, most marriages will benefit from these practices.
The book moves quickly and is easy to read. Ultimately, the emphasis is on kindness and commitment, two marriage tips we might all agree on, but fail to really practice in our own homes with our own spouses.
I received this book free from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review and the opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
VBS for Grown-Ups: Even When You’re Afraid
Vacation Bible School. That’s just for kids, right? Silly songs. Silly skits. Silly costumes. Kids stuff. Sure.
But is there any message in Scripture that God delivers just for people 12 and under? We older and ‘wiser’ ones sometimes make faith so complicated when the simple beauty of truth is what we really need.
This week, I’ll be singing songs and doing those silly skits from Group Publishing’s Weird Animals VBS at my own church.
Here on the blog, I’ll be sharing with you those same stories, the same lessons, the same truth, but for grown-ups.
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I wish I had my four-year-old’s bravery.
She’s this tiny powerhouse of courage, stepping onto roller coasters and water rides that drop you straight down and splash you in the face as you land.
She handles shots, injuries, and dental repairs without tears or drama.
But me?
I’m tossing and turning at night, not thrilled at the thought of food, outright terrified, edgy and far too prone to cry, and I’m wondering how I can bottle up this tiny daughter’s courage to fill up my own wimpy soul.
Funny how trying to obey God, trying to step out and do what He’s called you to do can be exhilarating and frightening at the same time.
Sure is like a roller coaster, I guess.
But you know what? I hate roller coasters.
Maybe that’s what makes this so difficult.
In one month almost exactly, I’ll be swimming in a huge ocean of other writers at my first ever writer’s conference.
It may be a month away, but the battle is here and now.
What if everyone is better than me?
What if every woman there looks more polished and more confident and has all the style and pizzazz that captures attention and I’m the easily overlooked tag-a-long that no one remembers?
What if I stumble over my words?
What if everyone hates what I write or hates my ideas?
What if I’m just not good enough?
What if I make all the sacrifices to be there and walk out with nothing more than capital F Failure and capital R Rejection?
God calls us to daily obedience. That’s hard enough some days.
Then sometimes He calls us to all-in, risk-everything, put-yourself-out-there, this-is-crazy kind of vulnerability and trust.
It takes courage. That doesn’t mean you aren’t afraid. Courage means you obey Him even when you’re terrified because you trust Him with the results.
The disciples had that courage. They walked right away from their fishing nets and steady paychecks.
The prophets spoke up for right against all that was wrong despite raging kings and queens and the bounties on their head.
Esther stepped into a throne room not knowing if the king would kill her or lower that scepter and hear what she had to say.
Paul strode into city after city and taught in the synagogue every time, knowing he faced the possibility each time of stoning, imprisonment, beatings, death.
And here I am, doing what I’m supposed to do to get ready:
Write the proposal. Come up with a tagline. Pack a briefcase. Print business cards. Connect with other authors. Build a platform. Choose a snazzy outfit. Get your hair cut and colored or at least maybe some highlights (maybe that terrifies me more than anything).
Most importantly: Pray. Pray some more. Pray every single day.
Here’s what I need: Holy Spirit courage to do what He’s called me to do and leave the rest up to Him.
Like it says:
But Jesus spoke to them at once. “Don’t be afraid,” he said. “Take courage. I am here!” (Matthew 14:27 NLT).
Take courage because He’s here, right here with you, present with you, not abandoning you, not sending you out all by your lonesome self.
Ananias needed courage like that, too. The Lord called Him to seek out a man from Tarsus named Saul.
Not any Saul from Tarsus either: THE Saul from Tarsus, the notorious Christian-persecutor and murderer.
He had to choose.
Risk it all, even death, and obey? He knew the cost. Ananias recited the risks for God, as if God clearly didn’t know the details before sending down the divine orders.
“Lord,” Ananias answered, “I have heard many reports about this man and all the harm he has done to your holy people in Jerusalem. And he has come here with authority from the chief priests to arrest all who call on your name.” (Acts 9:13-14 NIV).
“But the Lord said to Ananias, ‘Go….” (Acts 9:15 NIV).
Maybe God has called you out, asked you to do something that takes true courage and your heart just trembles at the thought of the call.
Yet, He says, “Go….”
Take courage, dear one. He is with you. Even when you’re afraid, Jesus loves you.
He knows the risks. He knows what makes your heart quake. He knows the results.
And He promises to be with you.
May I ask this of you? Would you pray with me and for me this month as I prepare to go to She Speaks in July? I am so blessed by your prayers for me!
Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. Her book, Ask Me Anything, Lord: Opening Our Hearts to God’s Questions, is available now! To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.
Copyright © 2014 Heather King
VBS for Grown-ups: Even Though You Do Wrong…
Vacation Bible School. That’s just for kids, right? Silly songs. Silly skits. Silly costumes. Kids stuff. Sure.
But is there any message in Scripture that God delivers just for people 12 and under? We older and ‘wiser’ ones sometimes make faith so complicated when the simple beauty of truth is what we really need.
This week, I’ll be singing songs and doing those silly skits from Group Publishing’s Weird Animals VBS at my own church.
Here on the blog, I’ll be sharing with you those same stories, the same lessons, the same truth, but for grown-ups.
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Some days, you must choose grace.
Not just to give, but to receive it, take it in, soak it up past the superficial skin and let it seep down deep into your soul, into the places of self-condemnation and records of wrongs and mistakes and imperfections.
Like yesterday.
It was a day of frustrating grocery shopping with lost coupons and a store that hadn’t stocked the chicken that I needed for almost a week’s worth of family meal planning.
And having to skip out on my exercise because I had to trek to a second grocery store to find said elusive chicken so I could feed my family more than one meal in the next seven days.
Then I finally unloaded it all at home, over-budget, discouraged, and frustrated with my non-exercising self for messing up my fitness plan.
As I sorted the groceries onto shelves and into drawers, I noticed the dirt in the corners of my kitchen floor, the apple juice splatters, the toothpaste in the bathroom sink, the laundry piled in the basket.
Wow, I just can’t ever keep this house clean enough.
And that writing project I planned for the day…didn’t get done.
My children had breakdowns, so did I, and there were the devotions I put off until 9:00 that night.
At the end of the evening, after dinner and bath time, and after my kids didn’t practice the piano, I read one chapter in a book to my daughters and sent them off for “independent reading” before lights out.
It had rumbled inside me bit by bit all day, but as we finished up that little bit of reading time together, my daughter reached over and turned down the corner the page to hold our place.
And I felt the full rush of failure.
I’m a page-turner-downer from way back. Despite a lovely, inspirational, unique and large collection of bookmarks, I fall back on a long-established bad habit: I just dog-ear my page and snap the book shut.
Unfortunately, it’s a bad habit I’ve unwittingly passed along to these daughters of mine. In fact, it’s so extreme they’ve even coined a term for it, transforming the word “chapter” into a verb.
“Mom, don’t close the book until we ‘chapter it!” they say and I dutifully slip the corner of the page down.
In that moment I thought: I’m passing along my bad habits to my children, handing them down like ill-fitting jeans and worn-out shoes.
Unfortunately, some of them aren’t as immaterial as dog-eared book pages–like stressing perfection too much, having too little patience with ourselves and others, and not accepting grace in the wake of messy failure.
Oh, how I recognize some of my kids’ hand-me-down perfectionism.
Don’t we all have days where it seems we meet with more failure than success? Where Satan can barrage us with reminders of the mistakes from long ago and the crazy mishaps of today.
Where every mom on Facebook seems to have it all together, gourmet meals for their family, a spit-n-shine house, Martha Stewart-like crafting ability, time to bake, snazzy Scrapbook pages, award-winning kids, and time for family service projects….”
Or maybe you feel it at your job or in your ministry or with your friends. What you should be doing. What you failed to do. What you said that was wrong. How you fall short. How you could be better.
The pressure of perfection is far too much for our imperfect selves tripping along in an imperfect world.
That’s why there’s grace.
Jesus looked at that thief on the cross and promised eternity in paradise right there at that first profession of faith. The thief didn’t earn it, didn’t have a lifetime of ministry credentials or a life heavy-laden with fruit.
Jesus forgave Him.
Period.
Sometimes we make grace so complicated. We think He forgives us when we prove we’re worth it or when we’re mostly getting things right.
But He knows our hearts. He knows our desire to please Him, our desire to be close to Him, and He knows sometimes we’ll still get it wrong. He died for us anyway. He forgives us anyway.
As John says:
This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.
Even though you do wrong, Jesus loves You.
So we must choose to receive the grace He offers, deciding it’s okay if we didn’t get it all perfect today and if our life got a little bit messy.
Doesn’t God love us?
Didn’t we try our best to walk in that love?
That’s the point and that’s enough.
Originally published November 2, 2012
Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. Her book, Ask Me Anything, Lord: Opening Our Hearts to God’s Questions, is available now! To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.
Copyright © 2014 Heather King
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