You will keep him in perfect peace, him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you”
Five days a week at noon I journey to the school and wait in the line of minivans to pick up my daughters from their classes. By that time each day, my baby girl is tired and ready for lunch and a nap, so the lull of the car bounces her to sleep almost daily. I have the joy of watching. Have you ever watched a baby fall asleep? Her breathing slows down ever so slightly. My little one folds her blanket over and snuggles it against her cheeks. Then the eyelids start to linger ever so slightly with each blink—closing for longer, and longer, and longer each time until finally . . . sleep.
It’s peace demonstrated for me on an almost daily basis. The quiet rest, the feeling of safety, the calm, the trust. Doesn’t that sound heavenly?
Somehow over time, though, most of us lose that miraculous peace, the absolute trust that you are loved and cared for so you can rest and leave the driving to someone else. It’s not present in my heart all of the time. I may let God do the driving, but I’m usually the passenger holding a map and questioning the navigational choices of my Divine Driver.
Do You really want us to turn there, God?
Do You know where You are going, God?
Do You have a destination in mind for me, a plan, a hope and a future?
Do You know any shortcuts that can get us there faster?
This often-elusive fruit of the spirit—peace—-is not a fairy tale or a figment of our Christian imaginations. It’s there available to us. Yet, sometimes I reject the peace that God offers me by failing to discipline my emotions and thoughts. I pray for peace for myself and others, the “peace of God, which transcends all understanding” (Philippians 4:7) and think that God’s peace is going to enter my heart miraculously and with little effort on my part. It’s a prayer that we sometimes use as a magical spell instead of allowing God to change our hearts so that peace becomes possible.
The bottom line is some of our behaviors need to change, some of our thought patterns need to be stirred up a little bit and some of our emotions bossed around.
Right before Paul talks about this incomprehensible peace that God offers, he tells the Philippian church “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God” (Phil 4:5). Peace starts with a thankful heart. In all of our anxieties, “in every situation,” begin by giving thanks. The worries that infect and plague us cannot coexist with the antibiotic of gratitude.
Paul also tells the church that God’s peace will “guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Peace requires the active discipline of standing guard over our hearts and minds and refusing admittance to whatever thoughts aren’t peace-full. Paul wrote out a clear test for determining whether a thought should gain entry: “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things” (Phil. 4:8).
It’s not that my thoughts are blatantly sinful or wrong, but I do have an internal dialogue of whining that certainly isn’t “lovely or admirable.” And I have a tendency to dwell not on “whatever is true,” but instead on “whatever might be true.” It’s when I allow myself to get caught up in “what if’s” that I trade in peace for worry and trust for anxiety. “What if this happens? What if that happens? What would we do in this situation and in that situation?” I sometimes live in hypotheticals that may never ever become a reality instead of focusing on what is true—-God is faithful; God promises to walk with me through everything; God loves me. Dwelling on the truths of God’s promises instead of the questionable reality of our circumstances is our responsibility. This discipline of taking “captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ” is what prepares our hearts to receive His perfect peace.
Paul gives us one final piece of this peace puzzle. He says, “Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you (Philippians 4:9). Peace occurs when we follow God’s instructions. We can’t choose to disobey God’s commands, live how we want to live, do what we want to do, and then wonder why our circumstances are difficult. There are consequences to every choice and it’s by choosing righteousness—-doing what God would have us do—–that we enjoy the peace of God’s blessing. Isaiah wrote, “The fruit of righteousness will be peace; the effect of righteousness will be quietness and confidence forever” (Isaiah 32:17).
Have you been longing for peace lately? Maybe you’re in circumstances that have you fretful and anxious. Maybe you are in the middle of tough decisions and you aren’t sure what to do. Maybe you have taken a step out in faith and you are waiting in hopeful anticipation of what God is going to do. Maybe you worry over whether you’re good enough at being a parent; are you making the right decisions, handling things the best way for your child?
I pray peace over you, a supernatural rest for your heart and mind. Our God is faithful and trustworthy and you can relax knowing that He is the one doing the driving. But, don’t neglect your responsibility to make yourself a vessel prepared to receive the peace He gives. Are there some bad habits that you need to break, some misassumptions you need to relinquish? Do you need to be more disciplined about your thought life and more in control of your emotions? Do you need to cease the “what if’s” and put an end to planning out hypotheticals? Do you need to change some of your behaviors and pursue righteousness instead?
It’s not necessarily going to be easy and it certainly won’t be a one-time event. No, it’s a moment-by-moment choice to trust God or not, to rest in Him or take over from Him, to do it God’s way or to demand our own way, but in the yielding of our hearts, minds and choices there is God-given peace.
Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer for www.myfrienddebbie.com and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.
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