“This is the bestest day I’ve ever had.”
We took a day during spring break to visit the aquarium. It took as an hour-and-a-half to get there, the tickets were expensive, and when we arrived, the line to get in stretched outside.
I almost left, just turned around and found some other place to visit for the day.
But we stuck it out and in the end, it was one of those days where everything turns out just right. We stood at the otter exhibit just as a museum volunteer walked over and announced we could watch them feed the otters. Later we walked by the huge shark exhibit just as another keeper told the crowd it was time for a “shark talk.” Sharks are my sons super-favorite.
So, when my son declared it was the “bestest day” ever in his entire four-year-old life, I figured he must have forgotten the trip to Disney, but yeah this was a pretty great day.
But then the next day was his bestest day ever, too. We played mini-golf and ate scoops of ice cream, so I nodded knowingly . Yes, it was a good day.
Then came Monday morning and the end of spring break. We rushed right back into school and activities, but that hadn’t changed his perspective. That was “the bestest day” he had ever had also.
Cleaning and errands and hanging out at home? This is the bestest day?
Now every day is the best day, whether he heads to preschool in the morning or stays home, whether we visit the post office or the library, whether we run errands or take a walk, whether it’s the weekend or a rushed and busy weekday.
“What makes the best day?” I finally ask him.
“When people are nice to you,” he says. A few nice words, a sweet smile, a pleasant encounter and that’s a great day. Not just a great day, but the best day.
Of course, people aren’t always nice. Sometimes we have hard days or even difficult seasons. We know it’sure doesn’t feel like “the best day ever.” Maybe instead it’s disappointing or long, rushed and breathless, stressful and tense or simply and deeply sad.
On those days, when crawling back into bed sounds like the way to go, we rely on something more. It’s got to be more than trips to the aquarium or ice cream night or simply the kindness of a friend that helps us hold onto hope and trust in God’s love and His plans for us.
We believe in His goodness. That He will not abandon us. That He is not out to harm us or to arbitrarily or apathetically watch us suffer. He is with us in the pain and in the hard days and He is helping us and holding us.
The Psalmist said:
Oh, how abundant is your goodness, which you have stored up for those who fear you and worked for those who take refuge in you, in the sight of the children of mankind! (Psalm 31:19 ESV).
David wasn’t really having a great day. He was tormented by enemies. In this same Psalm, he said,
Be merciful to me, Lord, for I am in distress;
my eyes grow weak with sorrow,
my soul and body with grief.
10 My life is consumed by anguish
and my years by groaning;
my strength fails because of my affliction,
and my bones grow weak.
Sorrow, distress, grief, anguish, groaning, affliction, and weakness– and yet David declared the abundant goodness of God and trusted that God had a plan for his future.
I consider Abraham. How God had promised him descendants that would outnumber the stars and, not jut that, but a land of promise, a place to call home.
But the very first time Abraham arrived in Canaan and set foot on the Promised Land,there was famine. He had to head onto Egypt in order to survive.
And the very first land Abraham ever owned in Canaan was the burial plot he purchased for his wife, Sarah.
This was the Promised Land? This was what he had journeyed for? Famine and mourning?
Still he trusted and still he praised, because God’s goodness never changes. His loyal love for us remains steadfast.
We just keep looking up.
Abraham looked to God for fulfillment rather than in the promise itself. David looked to God for strength when His enemies surrounded him. We also can look up, seeking Jesus and His goodness.
It may not be the bestest day ever in our life, but the day of trouble does not change the goodness of God. His goodness is our refuge., our safe place, every single day.
The Lord is good,
a stronghold in a day of distress;
he cares for those who take refuge in him (Nahum 1:7)