“Listening is an act of love.”
That’s what she told me years ago as we sat around the table in our Bible study group.
She said it with a laugh, because she was a talker. She liked chatting, chatting, chatting. Listening was the sacrificial gift she gave to others.
Sometimes one phrase like that sticks with you years later. It presses that impression deep into your clay-heart and you can trace your finger along the imprint over and over, to remember, to act, to transform, to put it into practice.
It changes you.
Listening. That’s the act of love we give to others.
We quiet our own renegade thoughts, stop trying to think of what we want to say next, stop tuning others out in order to turn our selfish eyes inward once again.
We listen. Really listen. We listen so we can pray and ask the right questions. Yes, we listen so we can show love.
I take this to heart. Me, the mom perpetually in the minivan. Some days, my kids want to babble on so. I live in a world of noise.
But when I start to nod my head without hearing and insert appropriate “Mmmm—hmmmms” at well-timed pauses simply to pretend like I’m listening to them (while I secretly revel in my own private thoughts), I stop.
Now I choose to listen, choose to value who they are and what they have to say.
And I remind myself of this: Listening is an act of God’s love to me.
He doesn’t just ask me to give this gift to others. He gives it first.
I don’t always feel it, of course. Sometimes I push out those breathy prayers and feel like nothing is changing. He isn’t listening, isn’t understanding my need or even caring about my little self in my desperate situation.
Those prayers sure feel at times like they are hitting that proverbial ceiling.
The Psalmists understood.
“Hear my prayer, O God; listen to the words of my mouth“ (Psalm 54:2)
“To you, LORD, I call; you are my Rock, do not turn a deaf ear to me. For if you remain silent, I will be like those who go down to the pit” (Psalm 28:1).
Asaph prayed the same:
“God, do not remain silent; do not turn a deaf ear, do not stand aloof, O God” (Psalm 83:1).
That’s what we feel perhaps, and yet we’re assured that God hears our pure hearts when we pray.
God doesn’t tune us out or ignore us.
Psalm 10:17 says,
“Lord, you have heard the desire of the humble; You will strengthen their hearts. You will listen carefully” (HCSB).
He listens. Not distractedly, absentmindedly, or halfheartedly.
God listens “carefully” to the desire of the humble.
Indeed, the Psalmist could say, “You know what I long for, Lord; you hear my every sigh” (Psalm 38:9 NLT). Even when we can’t cram our needs and feelings into words, God hears the very longings of our heart and every sigh of our overwhelmed soul.
When Jesus stood outside of Lazarus’s tomb, surrounded by wailing mourners who blamed him for Lazarus’s death, He prayed with these words:
Then Jesus raised His eyes and said,
“Father, I thank You that You heard Me. I know that You always hear Me….” (John 1:1:41-42 HCSB).
Jesus prayed boldly on the basis of the promise of God’s character: He is the God who always hears us.
In Beth Moore’s book, The Beloved Disciple, she issues a prayer challenge:
Every time you pray for the next week, begin your prayer with Christ’s words straight out of John 11:42, “I know You always hear me.” Then conclude it with Christ’s words in John 11:41, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me.” Practice God’s presence! Pray as if He’s really listening because He is!”
This is my prayer practice this week, the way I am pursuing the presence of Christ through my prayer life.
Because God does hear us. We just need the reminder and reassurance at times. This great God, so Mighty, so Awesome, loves us and chooses to listen to us as an expression of that merciful love.
Originally published: February 24, 2014
Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. Her book, Ask Me Anything, Lord: Opening Our Hearts to God’s Questions, is available now! To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.
Copyright © 2015 Heather King
4 thoughts on “Does God Listen When We Pray?”
Yes Heather, God hears us! Even when we might think that not! Even when we think our prayers are waste of time. He does, He listens carefully and provides for our needs. Blessings! Loved your post, encouraging for me! Would love to read that book “The beloved disciple”.
Love and Blessings,
Tayrina from TGAWrites
Thank you for the reminder to claim God’s promises and to be a better listener because it is an act of love that many of us half heartedly do.
It’s true….sometimes I am too half-hearted when I listen and , unfortunately, mostly with my kids. I need to grow in this!
Hi mam, Thank you for the message. Robert,