My oldest daughter wants to be a ballet-dancing scientist and teacher (not a science teacher, mind you, a scientist and a teacher who also does ballet on the weekends).
My middle daughter wants to be a magician who also tells jokes (thanks to the program we saw at our public library this summer by a very funny magician-entertainer).
I can’t even count how many possible careers I once considered to be the definitive answer to, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Pastor, college professor, librarian, pianist, lawyer, editor, teacher. Any and all of them were on the list at some point.
Most of them probably still are on the list if I’m being truthful.
The thing about life is that so often we’re looking for that one overarching purpose. What were we made for? What did God put us on the earth to do?
And if our answer is at all ordinary or seemingly unsubstantial, it seems like not enough. Our hunt for that one grand design continues.
We ravage books on anything that will help us find the neon sign of God’s will for our lives.
To me, though, the ultimate end of such books is sometimes disillusionment. Inevitably, the author discovers through miraculous circumstances that he’s meant to be a missionary to Africa or she is meant to lead an international ministry to the “least of these.”
Meanwhile, you may be reading this blog in between diaper changes and laundry cycles. Or maybe you’re munching away on your lunch at your desk with papers to file on the left and accounts to enter on the right.
So, what does this mean exactly? Does God only have a purpose for some of us and the rest are just fodder for the world economy or babysitters for the next generation? Are we “ordinary folks” the rejects God decided He couldn’t use for any truly meaningful life purpose?
Or does God have some top-secret design for our lives and we just haven’t performed the correct magical ritual to unlock it–the five simple steps to discovering our purpose?
Of course, there’s a very real way to miss out on God’s plans for you. If we aren’t willing to obey what He says, we will not be in His will.
Yet, there are those of us who have prayed heartfelt confessions of submission so many times and we’re still searching for the plan.
Honestly, as a teenager I was baffled at how some prophets responded to God’s call. God said, “Go” and so many of them (Moses, Jeremiah, Gideon, Barak) answered, “I’m too young. I can’t. Send someone else.”
Now, if God said to me, “Go,” I was sure I’d be the “Here am I, send me” kind of girl. I’d be like an audience member picked to be on The Price is Right, screaming my head off all the way to the stage in wild excitement.
But there are times when it feels like our names just aren’t being called. Others take the stage and are commissioned. We clap for them and listen even harder for our turn.
Have you been there?
Perhaps, though, we need to stop searching for one sole purpose like there’s only one point to our life. The truth is, God has a plan for you and that plan involves here and now and not just tomorrow.
Colossians 1:16b tells us, “all things were created through him and for him” (ESV)
Chris Tiegreen writes:
“If you have ever struggled to find meaning in your life, consider this amazing truth: You were created for Jesus. You weren’t created incidentally as a by-product of the rest of creation. You were specifically designed for Him. You are a bride, handpicked for the Bridegroom; or an adopted son, chosen specifically by His Father” (Worship the King, p. 104).
God created us for Him. More specifically, Scripture says: “Everyone who is called by My Name, whom I have created for my glory; I have formed him, yes, I have made him” (Isaiah 43:7)
Why are you here? What’s your grand purpose? What’s God’s plan for your life?
To give Him glory.
Today that might mean dishes, diaper changes and laundry—with a cheerful heart, fully invested in the physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being of the children God has specifically placed in your care.
Today it might mean praying for a coworker in the next cubicle over. It might mean quitting one job and starting on another. It might mean mentoring a younger woman or meeting with your neighbor for coffee.
God doesn’t just have a plan for your life: He has a plan for your every day. Don’t become so focused on the grand design that you miss the beautiful, God-ordained moments of ministry He brings across your path today and tomorrow and the next day.
Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer for www.myfrienddebbie.com and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.