“You dropped your head.”
That’s what he tells me as we leave church. He points to a spot on the floor with this twinkle in his eye, just waiting for me to fall for the joke he’s played on me many times before.
He gets us all the time. “Your shoes untied,” when you’re wearing ballet flats without laces. “You dropped your head” and people look to see if their head actually is rolling around on the floor, abandoned.
But I don’t even move my eyes. I just lean right over to him, pat him on the arm, and say, “You know what, I probably did. I probably did drop my head.”
Some days, you know?
Some days maybe you feel like you’ve been running around without any command center on top of your shoulders to help you hold it all together.
You feel a little famished, starving for time in the Word.
You feel a little parched, desperate for the Living Water of His presence.
You feel maybe like you really are missing that head of yours.
One missed quiet time turns into a week and then a month and more if we’re not careful. Sometimes we think if we can’t pray for a solid hour on our knees in a prayer closet, or if we can’t finish a whole Beth Moore lesson in one uninterrupted sitting, or we miss a day or two in our devotional or our Bible reading plan, then maybe we just need to wait until we can get it perfect.
If you can’t do it right, why do it at all?
Why? Because we’ll drop our heads, that’s why. We have to be women of the Word and women of prayer even if it means we need to adapt and adjust for the busiest seasons of life.
Maybe it means we just hold on for dear life to the hem of Jesus’ robe until life finally brings us to a place where we can sit uninterrupted at His feet again.
Sometimes faith has to be on-the-go…..and the good news is that God’s presence can invade the minivan.
Here are 7 ways to have a quiet time when you don’t have quiet or time:
1. Make a Bible To-Go Bag: Keep a bag in your car with anything you might need for an impromptu quiet time while you wait in the minivan to pick up your kids: a devotional you only use for those times, paper, pens, and an extra Bible or maybe just a Bible app on your smartphone.
2. Find Great Bible Apps: Load your phone with apps that will let you read the Bible, listen to the audio Bible, tune into podcasts, read devotionals, memorize Scripture, and keep a prayer log. I’ve listed my favorites below. Here are some of my favorites:
- Bible (by LifeChurch.tv)
- Scripture Typer
3. Use Prayer Prompts: Pray while cooking dinner, doing dishes, folding laundry, driving home from work. Pick specific places or activities that will remind you to pray every time you do them.
4. Break it up: I don’t have time to read a devotional, read the Bible, do a Bible study, write in my journal and pray all at once. I need to do these things all day long, a little here, a little there, grabbing time when I can. Try breaking up your quiet time into 10-minute activities you can spread throughout your day.
5. Do it with your kids: If your kids have memory verses for their church activities, memorize the verses with them. Read the book of Matthew together and choose a devotional to read as a family.
6. Exercise your faith: People often jog to their favorite work-out music or hop on the exercise bike and watch TV. Try replacing that with God-time. If you’re on the exercise bike, you can read your Bible or devotionals or listen to podcasts of sermons. If you’re walking or jogging, you can be listening to worship music, sermon podcasts, an audio Bible, or just praying.
7. Study online: I help to lead online Bible studies at The Womens Bible Cafe. I love that I can spend one hour in accountability, fellowship and encouragement and I can do it while my baby is napping in the next room. Many other ministries offer online studies also.
Most importantly, give yourself grace: If you expect the perfect quiet time to happen, then you’ll likely give up completely and never take time for God. And you’ll probably drop your head. Take every opportunity to spend time with Jesus even if it’s short, messy, interrupted, and on-the-go. If you fall behind, don’t get overwhelmed. Just start fresh where you are supposed to be and keep going. And when the day is done, rest well and start fresh with new mercies for a new day.
How do you make time for God when you don’t have quiet or time?
Originally published 10/27/2014