He said he was selling his Wii for a penny.
She believed him.
On Monday morning, I tousled my daughter’s hair as she slept and told her it was time to wake up and get ready for school.
“I’ll get up if you give me a penny,” she announced.
I thought she had been dreaming and was still half-asleep.
Three attempts to get her moving into the morning routine failed. I finally discovered her reaching for her piggy bank to find her own coins.
Then the truth came out. She had set her hopes on that one-cent treasure. Her Daddy carried her to the couch and held her as she cried from disappointment when we told her the ugly truth.
That sometimes people don’t say what they mean. Sometimes they make up stories. Sometimes they talk without thinking—and certainly without asking their parents. Sometimes they make promises and don’t keep them.
We’ve all felt the painful dashing of hopes and the shocking let-down of reality. Whether it’s disappointment in ourselves or other people or disillusionment with God, it’s reason enough for a long cry on someone’s shoulder.
Sometimes it’s because we’ve been tricked. Satan has duped us into settling for less than God’s best. We’ve fallen prey to false advertising and empty promises. We’ve trusted in people and, unfortunately, people aren’t always trustworthy.
The nation of Israel learned this lesson the hard way.
God specifically told them not to make treaties with the surrounding nations as they entered the Promised Land. They were to conquer each territory completely.
The people of Gibeon knew that Israel was headed in their direction and they had heard how Israel had destroyed Jericho and Ai, so “they resorted to a ruse.”
They sent a delegation out to Joshua. These men were dressed in rags and patches with broken sandals and dirty faces. Their wineskins had cracked and been mended. They even remembered to stash some moldy bread among the supplies.
Then, they told a lie: “We have come from a distant country; make a treaty with us” (Joshua 9:6).
Our bread was warm and fresh when we started this journey. Our clothes were brand new when we set out. See the proof. Believe what we are telling you.
Scripture tells us, “The Israelites sampled their provisions but did not inquire of the LORD. Then Joshua made a treaty of peace with them to let them live (Joshua 9:14-15).
Three days later, Joshua found out who the Gibeonites really were. They weren’t strangers from a distant land. They were neighbors. And they had tricked Israel into disobeying a direct commandment from God.
This commandment was for their benefit and protection. God knew that Israel wouldn’t stay true to Him if they were surrounded by nations who worshiped false gods. By the time of the Judges, “the Israelites did evil in the eyes of the LORD and served the Baals. They forsook the LORD, the God of their ancestors, who had brought them out of Egypt. They followed and worshiped various gods of the peoples around them” (Judges 2:11-13).
The Israelites settled for less than God’s plan, all because they hadn’t inquired of the Lord. They hadn’t asked for His input, discernment or insight. Instead, they trusted in fake promises and had been disappointed in the result.
Have people let you down? Have you trusted their promises only to discover lies and tricks? Have you made poor decisions because false advertising made it all sound so good?
Remember to bring God into the midst of your every decision. Inquire of the Lord before signing treaties and shaking hands in agreement. There’s no need to rush or settle for what the world offers; be willing to wait for God’s best.
Perhaps, though your disappointment isn’t with other people. Maybe it’s with God.
Maybe you did trust in Him, waited for His best to come and yet you haven’t seen the answer to prayer . . .still. Maybe you stood up for Him and don’t feel like He defended you. Maybe you thought the Christian life meant perpetual blessing and prosperity, but your bank account, the doctor’s office, and your relationships aren’t the fairy tale life you imagined.
What then? What do you do when you’re disillusioned with God?
Tell Him about it. Cry at His feet. Tell Him how you’re heartbroken and hurting. Mary and Martha weren’t afraid to tell Jesus, “If you had been here, my brother wouldn’t have died.” They poured out all their pain and didn’t hold anything back.
We can be honest with God.
Then, keep praying. Keep waiting. Don’t ever give up on God. He invites us into prayer with perseverance. Pressing in before the throne, we keep “asking, seeking and knocking.”
He may not answer you in the way you expect. He may not answer you as quickly as you’d like. But He is committed to faithfulness, true to His promises and He cares for you.
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Heather King is a wife, mom, Bible Study teacher, writer for www.myfrienddebbie.com and worship leader. Most importantly, she is a Christ follower with a desire to help others apply the Bible to everyday life with all its mess, noise, and busyness. To read more devotionals by Heather King, click here.
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